The Brahmana & The Prostitute
Once, in a peaceful village, there lived a scholarly brahmana (priest). Opposite his home, there lived a prostitute.
As a daily observance, the brahmana would sit in his doorway and recite the Gita. Meanwhile, across the street, the prostitute would tend to her business.
As the years passed, the brahmana grew ever more disturbed by the prostitute. “Just see how lowly she is.” he would think to himself and continue with his recitation.
It so happened that both the brahmana and the prostitute died at the same time. To the brahmana’s surprise, the Vishnuduttas (the Lord of Heaven’s messengers) came to deliver the prostitute while the Yamadutas (the Lord of Death’s messengers) came for him. “What is this?” he protested. “There must be some mistake!”
Both the Yamaduttas and the Visnuduttas replied, “My dear brahmana, there is no mistake. While you were busy meditating on the lowly activities of the prostitute, she listened to you recite the Gita and prayed that she could one day elevate herself to your position. In this way the prostitute achieved liberation while you only degraded yourself.”
Kuli Mela: The Tipping Point
Below is an article written by Madhava Smullen about Kuli Mela that was published in the Back To Godhead magazine in Volume 41, No 3 May/June 2007.
An Open Letter To Janmastami, Hrishikesha and the Editors of Vaishnava Websites:
The Sampradaya Sun recently published two articles: “Reply to Bhaktipada or Bhaktifraud?” from Hrisikesha prabhu and “A Reply to Hrishikesha dasa”from Janmastami prabhu. In each of these articles my name was given as an example of a minor who was sexually abused by Kirtanananda prabhu in the mid 1980’s. I want to point out that this use of my name was done without my knowledge or consent.
Some Alarming Statistics
According to data put out by the US Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (CDC) the national average is 10 suicides per 100,000 people. As a group, ISKCON gurukulis have already experienced approximately 10 suicides per 1,500 people (the estimated number of Kulis worldwide). This is about 100 times higher than the national average!
Currently there are about 10 “high risk” Kulis living in the Los Angeles area. Nearly half of them are considered “chronically homeless.” My guess is that there are similar situations in other parts of the world. The ratio of people that grew up in the ISKCON gurukula experiment who are now experiencing mental difficulties seems unnaturally high when compared to other groups. Given the environment in which we grew up, it is disturbing, but not unexpected.
Please, spread the word. We’ve got to keep making this an important topic, both amongst our peers and throughout ISKCON. Let’s honor the memories of Nrsmha, Dhruva, Arjuna, Jiva, Ramanuja, Ananda, Alanatha and others by working together to help those who may be going through an extra difficult part of their lives. Let’s look out for some of the most vulnerable and often invisible members of our Society.
In Memory of Nrsmha dasa (Elijah B. Long)
”Nrsimha was a loving person and I think that everyone who got to know him saw that sparkle in him. He was compassionate and kind. He cared for others deeply. There are many pictures I have of him laughing and having a good time with his gurukula buddies. Not all of his life was miserable because there were many beautiful, sincere moments when he knew that his upbringing in KC, was a special unique experience. He had not resolved how the abuses and neglect fit into the larger picture yet, and he compensated for the inner pain and anger by drugging himself until he was numb, but when he was lucid, he told me that I had given him something that he knew was for his spiritual advancement. He just could not figure out though, if the movement was authentic and good, or if it was damaging to the growth of the individual spirit soul. I think alot of gurukulis and their parents who suffer from past digressions, abuses, and failure of trust within the ISKCON structure, also are probably struggling with this dichotomy. And so if anything can be learned from the tragic death of my son, I think he would want what is not right to be corrected, and for all abusers and power-mongers who are covered by the false illusory energy, to be removed, so as to let what is right and good, develop and flourish.”
This is an article written by Daksi dasi about the death of her son, Nrsmha dasa, that was posted on Chakra April 19th, 2005. She gives insights into a parent’s perspective on ISKCON’s gurukula system in the late 70’s and early 80’s and her relationship with her son throughout the years. I include this article because it was written by a parent who sent her child to gurukula and because it discusses the untimely death of a gurukuli who struggled with his past.
I attended Nrsmha’s memorial service in New Vrindaban July 2005. I sat with many of his fellow gurukulis, parents, former teachers, and community members. We cried hard and long. It is a sad time when we gather to mourn the loss of one of our peers. These are the times when the term “ISKCON Gurukula Veterans” seems most appropriate.
Brijabasi Spirit Revived!
“A brijabasi is a resident of Vrindavan, and it was appropriate that the magazine of New Vrindaban was entitled Brijabasi Spirit. The Brijabasi Spirit first emerged in the early 70’s as a mimeographed 10-12 page newsletter which was stapled together. By 1977 it had become a 20 - 30 page magazine which included black & white photos. The issues catered to the community residents and copies were also sent to North American temples. In 1980 to 1982 the magazine added a color cover, and by 1983 it had evolved into a glossy magazine with a sophisticated layout and colored photos throughout. The articles catered to Hindu and Western visitors, highlighting the community’s planned expansion and various projects. By the late 1980′ s the magazine had returned to a simpler format. In the 1990’s it appeared sporadically until its demise in 1995. By the late 90’s the community produced a one or two page newsletter.”
This is a link to a newly revised online version of the Brijabasi Spirit magazine. This latest incarnation comes to us through the determination of Madhava Gosh prabhu and a few others. I am very interested in seeing how this develops.
Madhava Gosh appropriately calls his blogsite “View From a New Vrindaban Ridge.” The black and white photo from the cover of the Brijabasi Spirit magazine is of Bahulaban in the winter of 1979 (left picture, above). At the time of the photo Bahulaban was the center of the New Vrindaban community (I moved to NV approximately 1 year after that photo was taken). If you look closely at the upper left hand corner of the picture, through the tree line, you can see the house where Madhava Gosh currently resides and blogs.
The second photo (on the right, above) is a picture of New Vrindaban Brijabasis gathered at Srila Prabhupada’s Palace in 1982. The resolution of the photo is not that good, so it may be a bit difficult to properly identify people in it. Amongst others, you’ll find Sankara dasi (my mother, wearing a brown sari, fourth woman from the left, lower row) and myself (teenager wearing a red shirt, fourth from the left, standing in front of Manihara, upper row.)
The 1st ISKCON North American Child Protection Conference – November 10 – 12, 2006
“This conference is designed to provide Child Protection Team members, devotee parents, educators, and temple managers with tools and resources to take back to your communities. You will have the opportunity to network with other devotees interested in creating safer temples and communities. Our presenters are from the ISKCON Child Protection Office or from professionals in the field. The conference will take place in a beautiful retreat setting just 15 minutes from New Goloka Mandir in Hillsborough, North Carolina.”
This is a link to a brochure for a Child Protection Conference hosted by Lilasuka and Uttara prabhus, which is posted at the ISKCON Child Protection Office website. Lilasuka and Uttara hosted a “Child Safety Workshop” at the Kulimela Kid’s Camp. Having properly trained Child Protection Teams in each community is vital for the well-being of current and future generations.
Children of the Ashram
“It reminds me somewhat of this Twilight Zone episode. Sirens and the radio warned of an imminent nuclear attack by the Soviets. Only one household had built a bomb shelter. The rest of the neighbors wanted in but are locked out. They finally decide to beat the cellar door down and kill the owner. The owner is just about to start shooting them in self defense. Timely, the radio announces it was a false alarm. Everyone is simply left to apologize to each other with no hard feelings. Some situations can make everyone go crazy. That is when the exemplary come to shine.”
Below is an article titled, “Children of the Ashram” written by Raghunatha anudasa. As best I can tell it was written some time in the early to mid 90’s. The article recounts some of his experiences as a student in ISKCON’s gurukula system in the 70’s and early 80’s. It is generally accepted that the students in his age group received some of the worst treatment in the ashrams. I think he does a decent job of delivering a first hand account highlighting aspects of the gurukula experience that negatively impacted the students.
His newsletter, ISKCON Youth Veterans, published in 1990, was the first public forum to give gurukula alumni a voice. Raghunatha also helped to organize the first gurukula reunion in Los Angeles in 1990. Currently in his early forties, Raghu is considered one of the gurukuli elders. During a recent trip to New York City I was able to spend an evening with him and his family. He lives in Battery Park, is still an active writer and invests in NY real estate.
This article ties in with my previous posting “Who Set the Standards?” The gurukula teachers mentioned by Raghu are pretty much the same ones involved in the room conversation with Srila Prabhupada. This narration illuminates how discussions with Srila Prabhupada were translated into action by the gurukula authorities. (For clarification, Raghunatha is not the unnamed boy referred to in the room conversation between the gurukula teachers and Srila Prabhupada.)
NOTE: Please be aware that the article contains some intense details and descriptions.
On Matters of Faith ….
A Hare Krishna Monk and a Jewish Rabbi were sitting next to each other on an airplane.
After a while, the Monk turned to the Rabbi and asked, “Is it a requirement of your faith that you not eat pork?”
The Rabbi responded, “Yes, that is one of our beliefs.”
The Monk then asked, “Have you ever eaten pork?”
To which the Rabbi replied,”Yes, on one occasion I did succumb to temptation and tasted a ham sandwich.”
The Monk nodded in understanding and went on with his reading.
A while later, the Rabbi spoke up and asked the Monk, “Is it still a requirement of your faith that you remain celibate?”
The Monk replied, “Yes, it is one of the four regulative principles we follow.”
The Rabbi then asked him, “Have you ever fallen to the temptations of the flesh?
The Monk replied, “Yes, Rabbi, on one occasion I was weak and broke with my faith.”
The Rabbi nodded understandingly and remained silent, thinking for a few minutes.
Finally, the Rabbi said, “Sure beats the hell out of a ham sandwich, doesn’t it?”
Kulimela Business Development Conference
Below is my “fifteen minutes of fame” from the Business Development Conference at Kulimela. I was one of six gurukulis who were part of a panel. We each gave a short presentation and repsonded to a Q&A session from the audience. The other gurukulis: Govinda Syer, Samba, Bala, Kapila & Ananda Vardhani. The keynote speaker was Hare Krishna prabhu. He gave an inspiring speech that seamlessly incorporated KC philosophy with business principles. I plan to transcribe some of his address soon.
More Kuli Mela Video Footage!
More raw footage from Kulimela 2006 has been made available at Google Video.
You can watch the unedited video of the “Community and Spiritual Development” and “Business Development” plenary conferences from Kulimela 2006. Key speakers for the “Community and Spiritual Development” session included: Kapila, Shakuntala, Manu, Vedasara, Vyenkata Bhatta, Romapada Swami, Radhanatha Swami, Malati, Anuttama, Syamasundara, and Bhagavan prabhus. Key speakers for the “Business Development” session included: Hare Krishna prabhu, Govinda Syer, Samba, Ananda Vardhani, Kapila, Bala, and myself.
There were some really good points raised during these discussions. Sometime in the very near future I plan on doing some transcribing and posting portions on my blog. In the meanwhile, enjoy the video….
Burke Rochford Responds to: Child Abuse in the Hare Krishna Movement: 1971-86 & ISKCON’s Response to Child Abuse: 1990-98
“As many readers of this journal know, there has been considerable media interest generated by my article, “Child Abuse in the Hare Krishna Movement: 1971-1986.” Although I anticipated some interest on the part of the media, I never imagined the extent of media coverage that was to occur. In this short essay I want to reflect further on the issue of child abuse in ISKCON and address the publicity generated by my article. I also want to comment briefly about what has happened within ISKCON in the wake of widespread understanding that children were previously abused in the movement’s schools.”
This is a response by Burke Rochford to the intense media coverage that his article, “Child Abuse in the Hare Krishna Movement: 1971-1986“ generated. His essay was originally published in ICJ - Vol. 6, No. 2, December 1998.
Pathways To Bliss
“When people get excited about the Orient and begin putting on turbans and saris, what they’ve gotten caught in is the folk aspect of the wisdom that they need. You’ve got to find the wisdom, not the clothing of it. Through those trappings, the myths of other cultures, you can come to a wisdom that you’ve then got to translate into your own.” Joseph Campbell, from the introduction to Pathways to Bliss.
“Krishna Consciousness is not an artificial imposition on the mind….When one is factually on the plane of spiritual understanding, surpassing the stages of sense, mind and intelligence, one is situated on the transcendental plane.” Srila Prabhupada, from the introduction to On Chanting Hare Krishna.
About Me
Name: Chaitanya Mangala dasa
Location: Los Angeles, California, USA
Select Quotes:
“Essential truth spoken concisely is true eloquence.” KD Kaviraja (CC Adi 1.106)
“He should be very careful to accept favorable and reject unfavorable conditions that affect his realization.” Prabhupada (BG 6.10 purport)
“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” Einstein
“If we continue to do what we’ve always done, we’ll continue to get what we’ve always gotten.” Unknown
“Follow your bliss.” Joseph Campbell The Power of Myth













